Impeccable Agreements
Making and keeping your agreements creates trust and stronger bonds. Doing so also serves as a source of increased energy rather than burden.
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Agreements are simple: who will do what by when OR who won't do what.
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The Keys to Making Impeccable Agreements are
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Only making agreements you want to make,
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Make agreements using clear definitions of “what” and “when”
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Keep the agreements you make
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Change agreements that aren’t working for you
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Clean up any broken agreements
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If you feel unclear or uncertain about aspects of an agreement, ask for clarity or speak about what you are unclear on.
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While making agreements is simple, it takes time to master. While you're mastering impeccable agreements, be easy with yourself. Each mis-step can be an opportunity to learn more about yourself and others as you refine your agreement making practices.
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What to do if you are creating agreements that aren't impeccable?
Start by getting genuinely open to learning. Then explore these questions:
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Hmmmm, how can I experience the connection between keeping my agreements and increased aliveness (rather than thinking of agreements as rules other people are making me follow)?
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How do I make a conscious agreement?
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How can I easily say no to agreements I don’t want to make?
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In what ways can I reference my whole-body wisdom to select agreements I do want to make?
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How can I consciously change agreements that are not working?